Ok, I haven't posted on this forum in a long time.. and I know some of you are gonna try to troll me.. but lets be adults here please..
I need some advice...
I have been dating my now ex fiance for a year now.. we were getting married and planned to move in together and even planned to have a baby.. and she even got pregnant.. but something clicked in her head the day she found out she was pregnant she setup an abortion and then told me after she made the appointment.. I tried to be a man for her and even went with her as support as stupid as that sounds.. We stayed together for 2-3 months after but things never were the same and fell apart... I tried one more time to rebuild things by taking her to a hockey game.. (we were friends in her eyes trying to rebuild) but she was nasty and even disrespectful to me all day while going to the game and at the game.. Walking to the stadium she talked to random fans mainly guys.. and they were kinda hitting on eachother and I was like not even there, and he even asked her for a selfie pic cheek to cheek.. that ticked me off..
I tried to get one with her while watching the game but she kept saying no no and holding her hand over my phone... after that I got upset and grabbed my stuff and left her in the stadium and said youll never see me again.. We never talked or saw eachother for 3-4 weeks... Then randomly out of the blue on st pattys day she texts me... she is drunk big time and text bombs me... nasty as can be... but then 4 hours later calls 3 times and apologizes and said she was upset because she saw I made a account on a dating site and was looking for another girl.. you know.. I was moving on with my life..
She said she was hoping in time we would get back together and she stayed single for me and even told guys who have been asking her out that was seeing someone... clearly she isn't over me and got insecure I was moving on... Stupidly I got back with her... and we have been "re-dating" and things have been going good.. we agreed to forgive the past and not talk about it anymore..
However she like never seems to want to actually go out or ask me out or go out when I ask her... She ALWAYS goes out with her "friends" during the weekday to sports bars and never invites me.. she has been watching the college basketball stuff going on.. I think it would be a great date to go out with her, and her friends and mine and chill at a bar and have a good time but she never invites me or takes my invites... when I ask if she wants to go to the movies or just whatever I come up with she makes excuses she is busy or has no money.. but I know damn well after work she is going out with her friends.. I have no problem with her having friends but she keeps avoiding me.. So I invited her to a hockey game on the 25th but she made a comment she was already planning to go... now here I am thinking ok she has no money for movies but she does for a hockey game...
She said she will let me know tomorrow (well today because of the time) if she will go or not... but honestly... if she says no im thinking I should just stop talking with her... she got upset I was moving on looking for other girls and practicly begs me to come back and when I do.. she makes no effort to go out and see me... im confused..
What is going on here ??
I need some advice...
I have been dating my now ex fiance for a year now.. we were getting married and planned to move in together and even planned to have a baby.. and she even got pregnant.. but something clicked in her head the day she found out she was pregnant she setup an abortion and then told me after she made the appointment.. I tried to be a man for her and even went with her as support as stupid as that sounds.. We stayed together for 2-3 months after but things never were the same and fell apart... I tried one more time to rebuild things by taking her to a hockey game.. (we were friends in her eyes trying to rebuild) but she was nasty and even disrespectful to me all day while going to the game and at the game.. Walking to the stadium she talked to random fans mainly guys.. and they were kinda hitting on eachother and I was like not even there, and he even asked her for a selfie pic cheek to cheek.. that ticked me off..
I tried to get one with her while watching the game but she kept saying no no and holding her hand over my phone... after that I got upset and grabbed my stuff and left her in the stadium and said youll never see me again.. We never talked or saw eachother for 3-4 weeks... Then randomly out of the blue on st pattys day she texts me... she is drunk big time and text bombs me... nasty as can be... but then 4 hours later calls 3 times and apologizes and said she was upset because she saw I made a account on a dating site and was looking for another girl.. you know.. I was moving on with my life..
She said she was hoping in time we would get back together and she stayed single for me and even told guys who have been asking her out that was seeing someone... clearly she isn't over me and got insecure I was moving on... Stupidly I got back with her... and we have been "re-dating" and things have been going good.. we agreed to forgive the past and not talk about it anymore..
However she like never seems to want to actually go out or ask me out or go out when I ask her... She ALWAYS goes out with her "friends" during the weekday to sports bars and never invites me.. she has been watching the college basketball stuff going on.. I think it would be a great date to go out with her, and her friends and mine and chill at a bar and have a good time but she never invites me or takes my invites... when I ask if she wants to go to the movies or just whatever I come up with she makes excuses she is busy or has no money.. but I know damn well after work she is going out with her friends.. I have no problem with her having friends but she keeps avoiding me.. So I invited her to a hockey game on the 25th but she made a comment she was already planning to go... now here I am thinking ok she has no money for movies but she does for a hockey game...
She said she will let me know tomorrow (well today because of the time) if she will go or not... but honestly... if she says no im thinking I should just stop talking with her... she got upset I was moving on looking for other girls and practicly begs me to come back and when I do.. she makes no effort to go out and see me... im confused..
What is going on here ??
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